Planning for a wedding is an exciting activity. However, preparing to be married is an entirely different matter. This is why “Pre-Marital” counseling exists. Interestingly, a lot of people have this notion that counseling is only for people with problems. Or they have this fear that opening up any private issues to a counselor may only cause additional problems – which will then lead to the dissolution of the relationship and the marriage will no longer happen.
Luckily, this type of counseling is far from what these people have heard or think. Pre-marital counseling can be described as a type of therapy that helps and prepares couples for marriage. Think of it as an investment to ensure a longer relationship by discussing practical and important issues that will surely arise during married life. It will teach certain skills that will be of excellent use to make the marriage stronger.
Marriage is a long term commitment – and though no one can predict the future nor the problems that may arise along the way, couples can always be prepared. Pre-marital counseling is an opportunity to tackle / handle potential threats to marriage or issues that will have significant impact in the relationship.
Listed below are some of the topics usually discussed during pre-marital counseling:
Aside from discussing important marital issues, pre-marital counseling also offers the following benefits:
Marriage is a serious commitment. It is a long term solemn union. Pre-marital counseling offers exploring relationship issues (and potential ones) to ensure a satisfying married life.