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Parenting

Parent Counselling and Therapy

Parenting is by far the hardest job in the world. Being responsible for children, and teaching them to become independent and confident adults can seem like a daunting and scary task. Many parents worry about whether they are “good” parents. The internet bombards us with tons of information on how to raise happy, healthy and well-adjusted children. This could cause anxiety in parents because there is just so much information out there.

Another problem that some parents face is that perhaps they never had marital issues before, until after they had children. Husbands could feel ignored, while wives care for small children. Or wives might resent their husbands because they feel that they aren’t involved enough with the children.

Others might be so overwhelmed with the idea of parenting that they end up feeling depressed or uncertain of their parenting skills. And yet others might worry that they are not having the right bond with their children.

When it comes to parenting, know that many parents feel the same way. You are not alone. Parenting is hard work, throughout every stage and couples can also disagree on how to raise their children; this could lead to arguments. If you are struggling with parenting skills, then seeing a therapist is a great idea. Parenting therapy from professionals is helpful in understanding and managing things.

What are some issues that parents face today?

  • Balancing family and a career
  • Not bonding with children or teenagers emotionally
  • Lack of time
  • Providing consistent care
  • Failure in imparting moral values to children
  • Fighting between parents about discipline or how to raise the child
  • Accepting your child for who they are
  • Postnatal depression
  • How to help your child deal with bullying or shame from others
  • Being overprotective to the point that your child can’t grow as a better person
  • Children not respecting their parents
  • Single parenting

How can seeing a therapist help you with parenting?

Therapists can help with so many things. If you feel anxious due to parenting, a therapist can help you cope, and pinpoint the reasons for your anxiety. Therapists are also trained professionals who can help you with any of the above-mentioned problems.

It is also interesting to note that there are 4 different types of parenting styles.

  • Permissive

    A permissive parent is- loving, nurturing and supportive. But they could end up being too permissive. A permissive parent might avoid any conflict with their children and allow them to do as they please. This could lead to insecure children who need routine and boundaries to thrive. Professional parenting therapy in Winnipeg can help you in getting rid of your problems.

  • Authoritative

    An Authoritative parent is considered the most effective form of parenting for children. Authoritative parents have high expectations for their children, but they also know their children’s limits. They are understanding and flexible in their parenting. This will help children to feel open to communicating with their parents.

  • Neglectful

    A neglectful parent can mean not spending enough time with their child. A neglectful parent might not know who their children’s friends or teachers are. A parent who is neglectful might not even care for the basic needs of their children. This type of parenting style can cause longterm emotional damage in a child.

  • Authoritarian

    An authoritarian parent is different from an authoritative parent. These parents are demanding, very strict and not flexible. These parents rely on punishing children to keep them obedient. Often this breaks down communication between parent and child.

Seek Professional’s Help

By knowing which style you have, can help you work on where you would like to be as a parent. This can also help you figure out what style your partner is and this can, in turn, lessen arguments between parents. In this context, a trained therapist can guide you to become the best parent to raise emotionally healthy and well-adjusted children. If you are having problems in communicating with your children, parenting therapy in Winnipeg can help in developing strong communication skills and a closer relationship with them.

If you would like to have one-on-one therapy or family therapy, we can help you.

Parents often have the greatest influence on their children’s lives. As mentioned before, being a parent is one of the hardest jobs there is. With the right kind of help, you can bring the happiness and closeness back into your family.

If you would like any help with parenting, Winnipeg Couples Clinic would be happy to help you address any parenting concerns that you might have. Book an appointment and reach us today!